- Do you know what the hardest part of writing a book is?
- SPARK | “How can I make more time in the day to write with my son?”
- Don’t have much conversation with your kids? Here you go.
- That partner of yours. Yeah, the kid. We still have roles to play. They’re important.
- Spark | Time Capsule: this is one of those moments I want to remember.
- Spark Campfire | Step out of your comfort zone to uncover your true message
- Everyone is born a genius
- Here’s what I’m giving my nieces for Christmas
- The 1/4″ drill bit, Bali, cocktails on the beach, love, pride, and Spark
- Is your goal to have fun or win an award?
- I recorded an 11-second video 4 years ago that’s the foundation of my next book.
- Don’t wait 12 years. Please.
- It’s not only for you and your kids but your grandkids … and beyond.
- Is there anything possibly worse than not starting the project?
- Oops. That’s what I forgot: a story.
- The One Recipe Cookbook (and how to finish a project together with your kids)
- Best books for doing activities with your kids, creating family memories, and building relationships between parents and children
- Spark: It’s about creating something from nothing. Let’s create a subtitle, shall we?
- People like us do things like this
- Why Spark? Why me? Why you? Why now?
- What if I’d like to be one of the people like you who do things like that?
- Permission to … change my book title?
- Write a book with your kids? 43 elements for success. 42 are optional.
- It seems like backwards math, but by creating, we are actually “getting” more than we are “giving.”
- The Widow and the Orphan
- Spark Love: About that 1 mandatory element of the 43…
- Recipe for Love
- Kids need to crash their bikes to learn how to ride.
- Spark at “#1 New Release in Parent Participation in Education”
- Spark has hit #1 in Parenting in Free Books
- Spark Campfire
- When you document it, it becomes more real
- It takes as long as the time allotted
- I don’t want to navigate negativity.
- What’s the one little spark going to be that sets off the creativity in you (or your child)?
- Spark Campfire February 2019
- Find someone who believes he is alone and convince him that he is not.
- Well, wait a minute. That wasn’t so hard.
- Someone out there could use the help from the you of today
- I just got off the phone with my niece (and why that’s important).
- How to structure your non-fiction
- Spark Campfire | I wish I knew my nephew
- Spark Campfire | Why are you the person to write this book?
- Spark Campfire | Can we write a book and be less in front of a screen?
- Spark Campfire | How we define success
- Spark Campfire | So, you say you don’t have a book idea?
- Spark Campfire | Think about your audiobook before you thought you needed to
- Spark Campfire | Time Capsule
- Spark Campfire | Sweat Hut
- Spark | How do you answer the question, “What are you working on?”
- Spark: Ch. 3: Message in a Bottle
- The risk of remaining tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom
- Spark Campfire | Who can say what you want to say better than you can?
- Imagine yourself as a published author.
- Writing & Publishing: Why do we go to the gym? Wait, I don’t go to the gym. Exactly.
- Write Your Worst Book Ever
- This is what co-creating a book looks like
- Don’t do what you want to do but they want to do
- “Drama” audiobook is DONE!
- SPARK |Tell me your fears
- 7 Questions for Spark
- Spark Campfire | Did I mention we’re going to get it done?
- Spark | Thanks for your gift of sharing yourself through this book.
- “I get to be the fun mom.”
- “Our story has to be told.”
- SPARK authors Meg and Matthew Leal are #1 on Amazon!
- “Oh, next year will be better.”
A book* in a month, together with a kid, and enhance your relationship.
A few days ago, I let slip what I was giving my nieces for Christmas. What we’re offering is an experience. Except that rather than going to New Hampshire for the weekend together, we’re going to create something together.
* The asterisk for “book” up there in the subtitle is there because we can define book rather loosely. It might be a short story or a novella. Maybe it’s a full-length thriller or a brief nonfiction how-to book. I don’t know, a poem? The word “book” might be intimidating, so we can go with short story if that makes it more palatable.Bradley
We created something together. It wasn’t that I wrote a book and they wrote a book and then we talked about the books we wrote together. We wrote it together.
Ever since then, I get comments from parents (and uncles and neighbors who don’t even have kids) asking about how they do something like it together with their kids.
So I wrote a book. It tells our story as well as the story of another dozen families and what they did.
But what I hear from parents is they want more. They want a more concrete, “hand-holding” workshop, something with a fixed beginning and end with checklists and accountability and a “guaranteed” outcome.
I’m working on an online course called Spark Camp. You can log in and watch the videos and download the checklists and infographics. It’ll be great.
But people want community. They want accountability. They want to do it together in a group and start on a date and finish on a date. They want to share notes of successes and disasters. They want to see how others are doing it, what’s working and what’s not.
- “How did you get your 8-year-old boy to sit still for half an hour?”
- “When did you get the feeling that the kids were really into it? When and how did that switch happen?”
- “When was the moment when you knew this would change your relationship with your child forever?”
Whoa. That last one is the one that gets me.
Baking cookies with your niece
But what happens when you share your time, listen to a child’s imagination, tap into your own fantasy, and become a part of something bigger than yourself?
You see, dear parent friend, I don’t really care about “the book” we’re creating. This is very much “it’s the journey, not the destination.” Yes, we’ll create a book in a month. Yes, it might be terrible. But we’ll have something we can hold in our hands (and dare I say, hold in our hearts) that we did together with them.
The benefits might not be apparent immediately. In fact, it might be when little Billy is 32 and he turns to you and says:
“You know when I was 11 and you made me write that stupid book with you? I didn’t realize it then–and even if I did, I never would have admitted it to you–but it opened up a floodgate of my imagination I might have never experienced otherwise. It also showed me that you took me seriously and valued my ideas–as dumb as they probably were–and that you cared about what I had to say. It meant a lot to me, mom, and I’m glad we did that together.”Billy, 32-years old
Am I reaching here? Might this not happen? Here’s the thing: the chance of it happening is infinitely larger if we do the thing now than if we don’t do the thing now.
I need to stop writing now. It’s Christmas morning (well, it’s crazy early, I’m still really jetlagged) and the kids will be up soon. Hey, I also have presents to give.
But this is my plan for 2019. You’re more than welcome to join me. At the moment, we have “Spark Campfire” workshops planned for:
- February 2019 ($100)
- April 2019 ($200)
- June 2019 ($300)
- September 2019 ($400)
- November 2019 ($500)
What are your plans for 2019?