Bradley | Jul 12, 2019 | 0
The 1/4″ drill bit, Bali, cocktails on the beach, love, pride, and Spark
- That partner of yours. Yeah, the kid. We still have roles to play. They’re important.
- Spark | Time Capsule: this is one of those moments I want to remember.
- Spark Campfire | Step out of your comfort zone to uncover your true message
- Everyone is born a genius
- Here’s what I’m giving my nieces for Christmas
- The 1/4″ drill bit, Bali, cocktails on the beach, love, pride, and Spark
- Is your goal to have fun or win an award?
- I recorded an 11-second video 4 years ago that’s the foundation of my next book.
- Don’t wait 12 years. Please.
- It’s not only for you and your kids but your grandkids … and beyond.
- Is there anything possibly worse than not starting the project?
- Oops. That’s what I forgot: a story.
- The One Recipe Cookbook (and how to finish a project together with your kids)
- Best books for doing activities with your kids, creating family memories, and building relationships between parents and children
- Spark: It’s about creating something from nothing. Let’s create a subtitle, shall we?
- People like us do things like this
- Why Spark? Why me? Why you? Why now?
- What if I’d like to be one of the people like you who do things like that?
- Permission to … change my book title?
- Write a book with your kids? 43 elements for success. 42 are optional.
- It seems like backwards math, but by creating, we are actually “getting” more than we are “giving.”
- The Widow and the Orphan
- Spark Love: About that 1 mandatory element of the 43…
- Recipe for Love
- Kids need to crash their bikes to learn how to ride.
- Spark at “#1 New Release in Parent Participation in Education”
- Spark has hit #1 in Parenting in Free Books
- Spark Campfire
- When you document it, it becomes more real
- It takes as long as the time allotted
- I don’t want to navigate negativity.
- What’s the one little spark going to be that sets off the creativity in you (or your child)?
- Spark Campfire February 2019
- Find someone who believes he is alone and convince him that he is not.
- Well, wait a minute. That wasn’t so hard.
- Someone out there could use the help from the you of today
- I just got off the phone with my niece (and why that’s important).
- How to structure your non-fiction
- Spark Campfire | I wish I knew my nephew
- Spark Campfire | Why are you the person to write this book?
- Spark Campfire | Can we write a book and be less in front of a screen?
- Spark Campfire | How we define success
- Spark Campfire | So, you say you don’t have a book idea?
- Spark Campfire | Think about your audiobook before you thought you needed to
- Spark Campfire | Time Capsule
- Spark Campfire | Sweat Hut
- Spark | How do you answer the question, “What are you working on?”
- Spark: Ch. 3: Message in a Bottle
- The risk of remaining tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom
- Spark Campfire | Who can say what you want to say better than you can?
- Imagine yourself as a published author.
- Writing & Publishing: Why do we go to the gym? Wait, I don’t go to the gym. Exactly.
- Write Your Worst Book Ever
- This is what co-creating a book looks like
- Don’t do what you want to do but they want to do
Seth Godin says, “People don’t want to buy a 1/4″ drill bit. They need a 1/4″ hole in the wall.”
In his new book, “This is Marketing,” Mr. Godin goes on to say, and I’m going to paraphrase here, they don’t even really want the hole in the wall (who wants a hole in the wall?) but they want to hang the shelf. It’s not even the shelf so much as the books that are going to go on there. In fact, deeper than that is the pride he’ll feel when he drilled the hole and put up the shelf himself. An added bonus (and potentially the reason behind the entire 1/4″ drill bit purchasing journey in the first place) is the love and admiration he’s going to feel from his wife for having bought the drill bit to make the hole to hang the shelf to place the books to clean up the clutter which lightens their mood that saves their marriage and inspires a trip to Bali where they dream up a new career path and live happily ever after sipping sunset cocktails on the deck of their beach villa.
- Seth: drill bit and shelf and admiration
- Bradley: clear clutter, save marriage, inspire travel, change careers, move to Bali, sip cocktails, enjoy sunset
See how that happened? Seth Godin laid the foundation, he provided the spark, the initial momentum and I took it and ran with it.
This is exactly what I’m after with (my latest book) Spark.
Maybe the spark is not only you and your child and you igniting his or her creativity, but maybe *I* am also the spark lighting a fire under you to get this going.
Let’s take Seth’s 1/4″ drill bit to Spark:
- You (parent) buy the Spark book,
- Because you’d like to do a project together with your kids. Specifically, in the case study of you, your daughter.
- (Even though your child might not be so interested (at least not yet, but you know this is a long-term strategy)),
- But it will make you feel good that you did it, that you’re making an effort towards improving, enhancing, and adding a soft and warm glow to your relationship with her,
- You talk about it with her (which is already a step in the right direction if we’re talking about relationships),
- She is (a) completely uninterested, (b) sort of meh, (c) or thinks it might be fun. You move forward.
- You get started.
- Now you’re committed.
- It’s harder than you thought. But this is a good thing as your daughter adds a new twist you never would have thought of.
- You barely recognize her.
- You see your child in a new light.
- They lose interest in the project, but you’re motivated, so you reel them back in.
- You both get a second wind.
- You make never-before-witnessed progress in the family household.
- You laugh.
- You cry.
- You want to give up.
- You’re almost done.
- One last effort. One last push.
- It’s done.
- You did it.
- Your child can’t believe you were able to make it through the whole thing with all of the red wine you consumed during the project.
- You are astonished that your daughter is as creative as a wild hyena trapped in a corner by a pack of lions. She is ferocious and you love her now more than you ever thought you could love a person.
- Your final product is probably the worst creation known in the history of final products and you and your daughter couldn’t be more proud–or care less what other people think.
- You laugh more.
- You cry a little.
- Your daughter asks you why you’re crying.
- You tell her it’s because you love her.
- She asks what that has to do with the project.
- You tell her it has both nothing and everything to do with it.
- She doesn’t understand. At all.
- She pushes your wine glass towards you.
- You refuse the offering and just smother her in a hug that you never want to let go.
- She asks you, after some time, to please let go.
- You let her go because she’s now a new person, a new creative force to be reckoned with.
- There’s a fire in her.
- You helped start it.
- It started with a spark.
That’s how I see this book working its magic.
The magic isn’t mine.
It’s all yours.
I’m just the spark.
I’m just the 1/4″ drill bit.